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There is a term I learned in the theatre that I have grown to appreciate the more I work with organizations and the education system. The term is, “save-your-ass-theatre” and applies to plays that have weak or no direction so the actors have no choice but to save their asses.

In a well directed play the actors are in service to something greater than themselves: a specific story that is illuminated through the clear actions of the actors. The actors pursue specific intentions; their focus is on the pursuit of the intention (not on the audience, not on how they appear, not on “being liked”). The honesty of the actor’s pursuit is what opens the door for the audience to participate. My favorite definition of acting is, “the honest pursuit of intention in an imaginary circumstance.” The honesty of the pursuit allows the audience entry to the story.

In a play with weak direction, the actors are unclear of their intentions, less clear of their story, and are in service to not looking stupid. Said another way, they are in service to themselves. They are in front of an audience and do not know what they are doing so they do the only thing they can do, the thing we all do in a dangerous situation: they save themselves. They diminish the other actors, they hide, they upstage, they lie. The audience has no access to the play because the actors are not present, so they, too, pretend that something worthwhile is happening.

When an intention is clear, people are generous in their support for each other. They are in service to the same thing and do not get confused in games of power or territory. When an intention is not clear, people default to survival mode and save their asses.

Systems go awry when they no longer serve the purpose for which they were created – or when the purpose for which they were created is no longer relevant. The public schools are a perfect example. The system was created to produce minimum competency for a world 150 years ago. It is an antique. And, because it no longer knows the story it is telling, brilliant, dedicated teachers are being forced into a production of save-your-ass-theatre because we as a nation have confused passing tests with learning. We blame them because we don’t know what to do (proof positive that we, too, are in a production of save-your-ass-theatre). Brilliant, dedicated students are suffering in a production of save-your-ass-theatre because we as a nation have confused answer-regurgitation with ferocious inquiry.

Learning is not testing. Answer-regurgitation is not inquiry. We can clarify this play when we choose to stop pretending that what is happening on our stage is worthwhile, when we stop denying that our Model-T is the machine that can get us there.

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If you’ve ever doubted the power of the arts it is worth your time to investigate the Mark Morris Dance Group. In addition to being a world-class dance company, the MMDG has started a unique collaboration that began with the Brooklyn Chapter of The National Parkinson Foundation and is now in 40 communities around the world. It’s called Dance For Parkinson Disease.

These are not professional dancers dancing to raise awareness of Parkinson disease. These are people with Parkinson disease dancing, taking dance classes, with the members of the Mark Morris Dance Group. And, while dancing, the symptoms of the disease lessen or in some cases go away.

The body loves to move. The human spirit loves to express (or, perhaps love is the human spirit expressing). In this dance there are no limits.

There is no better example of empowered people empowering others. Visit their site and take a look at the short PBS piece. It will lift your spirits.

markmorrisdancegroup.org/the_dance_center/outreach

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DeMarcus Brown was one of the pioneers of the theatre in the 20th century. He lived a vibrant 99 years of life and I was fortunate to know him in his final decade. Two of my great mentors were his students (one of them is his daughter, Marcia).

Every so often Marcia sends to me a treasure from DeMarcus’ life: some of his beautiful costume designs, set renderings, paint brushes, or a directors book. Recently, she sent a small book, hand made, filled with notes the young student DeMarcus took about design. There are riches on every page. Each day I play the game of opening to a random page. This is what I read this morning (he is writing about color):

One vibration (color) must dominate or a scheme of chaos is the result.

Everything in this world of feeling is Joy.

And truer and more real and more ultimate than paint, good than evil, every problem has its solution through the language of color – through color we add joy to this world of seeing.

Everything created must give a feeling of unity.

Taste these phrases! “A scheme of chaos.” “Through color we add joy to this world of seeing.” “Everything created must give a feeling of unity.”

This was an artist! Imagine seeing the world through those eyes!

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It is the final few weeks of our telecoaching class. Patti and I have asked the group to do something akin to attempting to consciously create each moment of their day. We’ve asked them to place their focus on their immediate relationships (with others, with nature, with themselves) and to ask, “Is this how I want to story this moment? Is this what I want to create in this moment?”

It seems like an impossible request until you consider that it is what you are doing anyway. The pertinent question is not, “Can you do it?” rather, the question is, “Are you aware of how powerful you are at creating?”

The most potent recognition I’ve had in doing this exercise (and I have it every time I do the exercise), when I ask the question, “Is this how I want to story this moment,” usually my answer is, “No.” Usually I want to create something else. I do not want to create frustration or angst or rushing around. I do not want to attempt to control or manipulate or pressure an outcome. I do not want to invest in a fear or let loose the lack monologue to rage once again about my mind. I do not want to deflect or hide. And the moment I see it, I let go my grip on something I can only call a “story.”

I let go, my eyes clear and I become present. That is why I suspect that creating is a quality of being as much or more than anything I will ever do.

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Every story has multiple layers of meaning and each layer has multiple interpretations. Stories are meant to open slowly, each layer of meaning revealing a new layer of possible meaning, each layer of interpretation giving way to a wholly new point of view. This is particularly true of the story-you-tell-your-self-about-your-self. You are fluid, every changing; not fixed.

If you doubt this, take a look back at your life. Choose any moment from your past and review it, roll it around in your memory. How do you story it now that might be different than how you saw it 5 years ago? Each time you remember a moment you are reconstructing it; memories are not fixed in time. They are not isolated and true. They are fluid and available for any number of variations. You story your past just as dynamically as you story your present.

It is trick of language that something as changeable a memory is a noun, a “thing” that exists independent of your telling. Memory is a noun like river is a noun. It leads you to believe that you are describing something concrete instead of a dynamic life rushing toward its inevitable ocean.

How might you experience your life if you weren’t so wedded to your interpretations of your past?

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I researched, wrote and performed a story to accompany the music for Beethoven’s Creatures of Prometheus. In the story, Zeus commands Prometheus to create a pair of dull crude creatures whose single purpose is to worship the gods.

Out of clay Prometheus fashioned the first woman and man. He did not follow his orders and instead of shaping crude creatures he made them beautiful. He made them to be beautiful. He hid their shapes beneath a great tree so Zeus couldn’t see them. Knowing that Zeus would never give him the spark of life to ignite his creature’s hearts, he stole the fire, racing down the mountain to reach his creatures and give them life before Zeus discovered and destroyed them.

Zeus did not destroy them. He had a plan more cruel aimed not at the humans but at Prometheus. He let them live. He let the gods teach them wonderful things like music and mathematics, astronomy and dance.

And then, just as in the Christian version (called Adam and Eve), he metaphorically banished them from their garden by making them forget their true creator, Prometheus, and forced them swear allegiance to him as their maker. Instead of being the servants of beauty (for which they were designed), Zeus gave them a different focus. He gave them the desire for power-over-others and possession, he gave them war and put limits on their lives; he gave them separation from their beauty, he gave them fear as the focus of their worship. He gave them death.

But the woman held fast to the memory of Prometheus. She knew for a time that she would have to pretend to worship the angry god. She knew Prometheus would be waiting for them when the man, one day, also remembered what he was made to be, and together they would find their way to fulfill the original design.

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Truly powerful people inspire true power in others without really trying. Their focus is not power or impressing or status or winning or being right. They inspire power in others because they are not concerned about it within themselves.

Tom often says, like a mantra or a phrase tossed off to dispel the phantoms of confusion, “A writer writes and a painter paints.” The action needs no story. The admiration of others does not make you a writer. Selling paintings does not make you a painter.

Artistry in any form is an inquiry into inner quiet; it is a relationship with uncertainty. The action needs no story. A writer writes. A painter paints.

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All humans are creative; it is what defines us. We are constantly telling ourselves a story and the story is of our creation. It is the most creative thing you will ever do!

It is impossible for you not to be creative but it is possible not to experience yourself as creative. It is possible to bottle your imagination, it is possible to define yourself as too small; you are free to reduce yourself to the lowest common denominator.

A deep sense of ownership and responsibility lives at the center of every creative being. If you are not feeling yourself as creative then you have probably given over your valuation (responsibility) to something or someone else. You are trying to stand in a center that does not belong to you (an impossible task) and you have given away your center to someone that cannot occupy it – it is yours to full-fill. It is a lose-lose proposition.

No one can determine what you think or see or feel. No one is responsible for how you think or see or feel. It is a sure sign that you’ve abandoned your center if you’ve assigned the responsibility for your feelings to someone else. The opposite is also true: you are incapable of determining what others think or see or feel. It is a sure sign that you’ve abandoned your center if you claim responsibility for how others think or see or feel. You are trying to inhabit a center that is not yours.

Your center is already yours – there is no need to go looking for it. What you seek is already within you grasp and it is waiting for you in your center. It is wildly creative. All you need do is stand still and claim it.

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Empowered people empower others because the story-they-tell-themselves-about themselves is one of empowerment. They have no need to tell another kind of story or participate in any stories of diminishment.

Their story of empowerment, although original (as it is to all of us), was lost beneath a default story and not easy to remember and reclaim. Empowered people empower others because they know what sparkles beneath the dull face of the default story. They know how difficult it is to scrape away the clutter and see the original story of empowerment.

Each of us has a default story. It is the false story we learn and eventually claim that splits us from ourselves. It is the story of false comparisons or false expectations. Have you ever thought that you need to do something to be perfect? That is your default story. Have you ever told yourself that you are not good enough, not as good as others? That is your default story.

It is the story you resist and, paradoxically, the story that you claim. When you tell yourself that you are not creative, you are arguing for your default story. If you feel like you have one foot on the gas and one foot on the brakes, you are telling your default story.

What would it take to argue as vigorously for your wholeness as you argue for your diminishment? What would you need to relinquish to reclaim a story of wonderment and release the story of routine?

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Truly powerful people are dedicated to inspiring true power in others because they have remembered themselves as powerful. They have come to know themselves again. And so, they no longer need concern themselves with things like power or worth or value or comparison or perfection or any other story that keeps people split.

Stepping back into your self requires some comfort with ambiguity, the capacity to stand firmly within paradox. You have to release what you think you are in order to inhabit who you really are. You come to see yourself not as fixed, a single identity, but fluid, an ongoing relationship (many identities). When you are ready to cease seeking your power from others you have the capacity to see your power within your self. In fact, you cease seeing power as something possessed by one and not by another. You see power in everything and everyone. You see.